For most people, you guys have already know that I'm in a good relationship with my dear boy, Eric! Yup, it's something worth to be happy about. Nope, I'm not here to boost about my relationship. Rather, I'm here to reflect and write something good.
2~3 years back, I had a failed relationship where by I caused people around me to be so worried about me. That's when I started to learn how important kinship and friendship can be.
First of all, my parents were my greatest support. :) Till now, I just feel that I owe them so much. That's the reason why I can stick my parents like super glue when I'm at the age of 23 now. :) I have nothing to feel ashame over it because without them, there's no Liping now.
Next, my friends. They were my support when that jerk broke of with me. How? I owe my ex mentor alot. I felt sorry towards her. But one thing that is, there's a gap between us. That's religion. Till now, I still regard her as my mentor and respect her. Because she's just like a sister to me. People from the church will know who is she, shan't name who. Sec. sch friend, went out with me to chill with me. poly friends, i guess, you know who you are. I really wished i can erase the past so that I will never experience unhappiness. But it's part of life.
Perhaps, due to my figure, i didnt have much self confidence that I will be able to find a good guy in future and thus, whoever hold my hand, I'm ok. Hahaha... It's a WRONG example to follow.
After all the incident, I met ppl who encourage me to slim down. That's when I met my bf after I succeed in slimming. :) Now, we are almost together for a year. It may seems short to some of the youngster out there but to me, this relationship worth a million times putting in my effort and time. :) I'm very practical. I don't like to waste time in a fail relationship after that incident. I tell myself, if the guy I'm going to be with, NEVER appreciate me at all, why would I even bother to waste my time on him? But I still believe god is fair and he grants us our wish if we put in effort. :) He gave me a guy who fits my criteria:
-taller than me
-older not more than 6yrs
-dote on me
-love me
-rich
-musculine
-chest hair (Ang mo with chest hair is MAN!)
-Ang mo
I can't think of any more but ppl, if u remember what I've told you, please help me add. But don't anyhow bullshit hor! haha
Why I say God is fair? Out of 8 criteria I listed, he gave me a man who met 5 of my criteria. :) No ang mo, at least he's a sg chinese!
No rich, at least he hold a proper job with decent pay
No chest hair, erm... asian very difficult have chest hair unless indian i guess??
So I'm thankful for having a near perfect bf already!
What's more, it's difficult to find someone who loves u as much as you love him/her! :)
Of cos, we have our bad times too. We may seems always happy but where got couples never quarrel? But I swear we nv quarrel. :)
Why?
I think we solve problems not using quarrel but talk. Of cos, involves my tears.. whaahaha..
I always think that single is the best choice for me. I used to be so independent to the extend, even without guy's help, I still can survive! But after being together with eric, things changes. I learn alot. My patience was beyond the horizon.. wahaha.. just joking. My patience towards Eric was indeed very good.(as feedback by Mr Mok) Things that I can't do alone and things that I have never came across. I need a man's strength. I need his guts. Most importantly, when everyone look down on me, he supported me. :)
I hope we can grow old together.. :)
I have a wonderful relationship to share with the world. And I'm proud to introduce to everyone, he's my man, Eric. :) He's Eric, my boyfriend, my dearest man whom I'm willing to sacrifice my life for him. No joke. He's not like any other men. He's someone I truely respect even though I'm his gf.
I can write endless telling about the stars and moon... But I'm not going to do that. :)
Good means good. Of cos, people may say, "first few years are honey moon period" but to me, every year should be honey moon period. That's the reason why you wanna get married and stay with one another.
Trust me, everyone will have a wonderful relationship. It depends on how you treat it. :)
I love him.
He's not rich. Neither is he poor.
But I love him not his money because I can earn my own. :)
He's older than me by 6yrs.
But he's as fit as boys who are 23yrs of age. :)
All I need is someone who is healthy, working and most importantly, respect, dote and love me. :)
